There are several ways to make a woman come faster if you truly understand how to give her an exciting orgasm.
The fact is: The mystery of the female orgasm is one that most men think will remain unsolved… well, forever.
Sure, study after study has found that there are many different ways to make a woman orgasm — but there’s no one technique that’s going to work on every woman.
On top of that, this recent study discovered that straight women experience fewer orgasms than straight men, and even lesbian and bisexual women.
So the odds that the next woman you take home will have an orgasm with you skyrocket.
With that in mind, here are 10 of the easiest and most effective techniques that will help you give your woman an super exciting orgasm.
It is the greatest heart desire of every man, to make his lady scream for joy beneath the magic of his “wand”, and the inability to make every woman who experiences your magic, scream for help can be really frustrating.
In today’s article, I will be explaining from a female point of view, the little things you think doesn’t matter during sex, but actually not just turn on a woman, but also drives her to orgasm effortlessly.
Let’s paint a scenario first, shall we?
Imagine you come back from work exhausted from the day’s activity, you knock on the door and your woman opens the door wearing a sexy transparent silky lingerie with a smile on her face.
She grabs your lips as desperately and longingly as a thirsty deer, lures you to the bedroom as she slowly undresses you.
She goes down below the belt, tucking at your pant, desperately trying to have a taste of your “magic wand”, which obviously has long responded to stimuli. After hungrily sucking at every inch of you, she gets on top of you and rides herself to an orgasm.
She gets up, heads to the bathroom cleans herself up and go prepare you a meal while she leaves you hanging without an orgasm.
Now, imagine this was you consistently being starved of the very moment that crowns all the joy of sex for three months, how would you feel?
Your guess is as good as mine. That’s exactly the same way your girl feels every time you leave her aroused without getting her there.
First I must stress that for most girls, “Orgasms” aren’t actually squirting. In fact 90% of the female populace might never squirt till they die, and that is totally natural.
Only a few percentage of women actually squirt, for the major percentage, a good satisfying and emotionally fulfilling sex is all they need to reach the peak.
So know your girl, be sure that every time you guys get down, she is as sexually satisfied as you are before you proceed to find your own pleasure.
I did a recent survey and interviewed a couple of ladies and their response to this subject is quite alarming and evident that most guys don’t put in extra work or effort to satisfy their women and it is no wonder there is a high rate of infidelity among women especially married ones.
Sex is sweet, sex is divine, make the woman in your life look forward to having sex with you. My survey was basically to help men perform better in bed, it’s not rocket science, it’s simple as “ABC”. Let me help you become the sex god she always aspires you to be.
10 Proven Secrets To Give Woman Exciting Orgasm
- Set the mood with cool music
- Tease her to beg for it
- Oral sex
- Eye contact
- Put cubes of ice on her nipples
- Let her do it
- After sex communication
You Set the Mood With Music
Music is an aphrodisiac whether you like to hear it or not. If she is a romantic, you will might want to dig up some music that is soft and also romantic to put her in the mood. In general, don’t choose anything too loud or noisy. Music will not only put her in the mood, it will muffle her moans, making her feel less shy to do so and enjoy the experience even more.
Use Eye Contacts To Make Her Rain
Have you ever had an orgasm while looking into your partners eyes the entire time? It is one of the most intensely pleasurable experiences you can have.
The sexual eye contact heightens the feelings of pleasure and connection beyond anything I can describe in words. And any woman who has experienced this before CRAVES more of it.
Avoid the typical routine of turning off all the lights and just grunting and pounding away in the dark. Start to work some eye contact into your sexual encounters, and see how much it turns her on.
Fore Play Is Magical
The back and neck are very sensitive areas and great erogenous entry points. Caressing and massaging such entry points is key to being a gentleman and heightening sensitivity in more explicitly sexual areas. Kiss her passionately and caress her boobs (the boobs are the magical kick starter).
Tease Her Till She Begs For It
From many conversations and interviews with women I know the typical man in bed does almost no teasing. He just plows forwards directly to his goal of intercourse with no finesse, just doing the minimum necessary to get to penetration.
What women want is for you to build up to a sexual action with teasing until she’s practically begging you for it. THEN give her the gratification.
For example, with oral sex most men just dive right in.
What would turn her on much more is if you kiss up her inner thighs, and breathe warmly on her vagina. Then, so lightly she can barely feel it, run your tongue over her clitoris.
Do this until she’s pleading with you to give her more and THEN give her the gratification. She’ll enjoy it about a hundred times more.
Communication is Key
Know what works for her, know her fantasies and explore with her, make her fantasies come to reality. Most men don’t want to pay attention to extra details when it comes to their women, all they care about is how to satisfy their own sexual urge forgetting that the woman also deserves to be satisfied sexually.
Cunnilingus (Oral sex) Is Very Necessary
I’m constantly amazed by how many men have told me that they don’t give women oral sex that often, or that they don’t do it at all. The justification which I’ve heard so many times is “it’s OK, I’m good with my fingers”.
This is like a girl telling you “I don’t give blowjobs … but it’s OK, I’m good with my hands”.
It’s just not the same. If you know how to do it right, giving her oral sex is the fastest and easiest way to give her orgasms. Women love guys who love to give them oral.
Move in to the area gently and softly, and make sure to respond to her. It’s okay to ask her about her preferences, especially for less demonstrative women.
Get Kinky Bro
Blindfolds, ice cubes over her nipples (or wherever you want to excite her), feather tickling, and tying her up are all options. Be your intriguing self and you’ll arouse her interest to try out new things.
Talk Dirty To Her
Should I also tell you how to talk dirty? i guess not, but if you don’t, well you can say something like “Nobody makes me feel like you do” “I’ve never had a pvssy so good”.
Let Her Do You
Men are obsessed with “putting in a good performance” in bed. And to some extent this is not a bad thing.
You do want to give her sexual pleasure and orgasms, but if you need to be “performing” for her ALL THE TIME, then this can be a big turn-off for her. She wants a guy who can also set up situations where she can perform for HIM.
Pay Attention To Her After Sex
After sex, she is completely open and vulnerable to you. Most guys squander this time though by ignoring her after sex, or by just going to sleep.
Women don’t “come down” from sexual pleasure as quickly as men though, so she’s going to want you to hold her and be close to her while she does. Believe me, she’ll enjoy sex MUCH more of you just spend a few minutes doing this.
Plus, what most guys don’t know is that after sex is the best time to strengthen her sexual bond to you so that she wants to have sex MORE in the future. A little peck on the forehead won’t hurt.
The above 10 proven secrets will definitely make your woman have an exciting organism if you do it the right away.
Source: Opera News Hub